Maid of Honor Do’s and Dont’s

As the one chosen by the bride to stand at her side your responsibilities are huge, so i’m going to give you some do’s and don’ts to make this part easier for you! First thing is breathe, you can do this! Here are the Do’s. You need to consider what you can afford and stick to that budget. I want you to sit with the bride and choose a date that best works for you both. Then the actual planning starts! Having the bride and your budget in mind, start looking at venues, themes and activities that best match the brides personalities. Your bride needs to create a registry and give you a list of guests to invite. Order the invitations or send an invitation via email and mail or send them out 4-6 weeks in advance. When considering the food options (remember your budget) make sure to offer a mixture of appetizers, desserts and drinks. Include a few games or a crafty diy station and just have fun with it! If you personally have a friend that isn’t involved in the wedding festivities ask her to come and take some pictures. Your bride will want pictures but hiring a professional may not be in your budget. Seek out small yet thoughtful favors for your guest to show the bride’s appreciation.

Now to the Don’ts, do not invite anyone that is not invited to the wedding. That will cause unneeded stress on you as well as the bride. Don’t overextend yourself financially, this will cause you stress that’s not necessary. Don’t forget to Introduce all the guests so they all feel welcome. Don’t make the shower all about the gifts and if the bride chooses not to open them at the shower that’s okay as well. Be mindful of the dietary restrictions, there’s nothing worse than an ambulance having to come to the shower. Don’t make the bridal shower too long and don’t forget to thank each guest individually.Last but not least Don’t let the bride forget to send out the thank you notes!

The bridal shower is meant to be a joyful and relaxed celebration, so just enjoy yourself!